Dear Readers

The theme of this blog, Abigail coming home, has been completed for some time now. Therefore, it's time to close the book on this adventure and call it complete.

The family adventure, however is far from over. If you wish to continue to follow the Friend family, head on over to our family blog at thefriendfam.blogspot.com. There you will find updates on Abigail as well as the rest of the family.

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Illness Strikes

Deb got sick today.

Something went against her. She was feeling a bit woozy this morning but thought she was strong enough to venture out to the Dayan Tower (also known as the Big Goose Pagoda).

Jane gave me a sheet of paper with the Dayan Tower written on it in Chinese, and the Bell Tower Hotel written in Chinese underneath that. With that, I could hail a taxi and just show the driver the paper. It worked very well. All five of us piled into what amounts to a subcompact four-door car (Abigail was on one of our laps in the back) and we took the trip across town to the tower. The taxi ride over was 12 yuan (just under two bucks).

The view of the city from the top of the tower is supposed to be magnificent, however, with the gloomy, dank, misty weather we've been having here, the visibility was down to several hundred yards, and the top of the tower would have afforded no advantage at all. So we walked around the grounds, not wanting to pay the extra 20 yuan a head for the privilege of viewing a fog bank.

When we got home in mid-afternoon, Deb was feeling really ill and laid down for a while before getting sick a while later.

David and Abigail and I ventured out around suppertime to get Deb some crackers to eat and a more substantial meal for the rest of us. We stopped at the KFC near our hotel to get some chicken for dinner.

Ordering fast food in China is always a trip, and this time was no exception. The staff could see we were lost right away and brought out the usual menu card with English words on it. When they laid it on the counter, Abigail immediately began chattering in Chinese and pointing to several of the items on the menu. She had a dinner entree, fries and a specialty drink ordered before I could convince the person behind the counter that I was the one doing the ordering and not her.

When I finally had convinced the clerk that I wanted the chicken bucket and four large fries, the total for the order came out to somewhat less than I was expecting. When they finally completed the order, we had the bucket, and one order of fries, with four ketchup packets. When I held up four fingers and pointed to the fries, they gave us more ketchup. I finally convinced them to add three orders of fries to the order.

After another few minutes trying to convey the idea that I wanted a bag so I could carry the stuff out the door, we were finally on the street headed back to the hotel.

Deb was feeling somewhat better when we got back, having purged herself pretty completely. She ate a few crackers and is now in bed, as she is feeling quite weak. She thinks the big difference in diet has really messed her up and right now has no desire for any more Chinese food.

At least the breakfasts have a more Western feel to them. We all tank up at breakfast, including Abigail. Her breakfast this morning included mixed fruit, part of an omelette, hard boiled egg (which I ended up eating), tomatoes, sausages, bacon, steamed bun, noodles, and orange juice. She has almost completely given up using chopsticks, even though she uses them so well.

Josh has been fighting a cold for the last few days, and now David seems to be coming down with it also. We purchased tickets to Guangzhou today, and Friday evening can't come fast enough. This gloomy weather puts a damper on everything. Plus, the only thing we're officially doing is waiting for Abigail's passport to be issued on Friday.

Tomorrow (Thursday), if everyone is feeling well enough, we'll try to make it to the Terra Cotta Warriors.

7 comments:

The Franz Family said...

I am sorry to hear the illness gets in your way. Send our prayers for everyone to get better soon.
Abigail is so beautiful. It sounds like the adjustment goes very well too.

Anonymous said...

Deb: So sorry that you got sick. That is never fun, but especially in a foreign country. We will pray for healing and health for the rest of the family. I get so excited when I read the progress that is already being made towards becoming a "family". I loved the picture of Josha and David w/ Abigail between them. It's like a dwarf living in the land of giants! Now Hannah will have someone more her "height" to hang with at family parties and not feel so "small". I love her strong personality as well!! Every family needs one of those! :) we love you all and keep you in our prayers.

Blessings,
Sherry

Chris Haven said...

Send Deb our best,hope she feels better soon. I also loved the picture of the boys with Abagail. Pizza, KFC sounds like you are able to eat some American food. Does it taste the same? I hear pizza in E.Europe has mayo on it!! Our prayers are with you.
Haven family

Anonymous said...

So sorry to hear that sickness has hit you. We pray that it will not spread to the rest of the family.
We are praying that you will be feeling well again for your Thurs outing.
We are thinking of and praying for you

Dad and Mom

Anonymous said...

So sorry to hear about your sickness get well soon!!!!

Anonymous said...

Being sick is never fun, and worse away from home. I hope no one else gets what Deb has. Doesn’t sound like Abigail will have problems standing up to her two big brothers! Thank you for sharing your journey and pictures. It has been interesting peek into China.

Anonymous said...

Deb-we were so sorry to hear you got sick. We pray that you feel alot better today and that nobody else gets it! Abigail looks like such a honey-how we wish we could meet her and soon. I don't know how I am going to wait till May to meet her. I am sure you are all about ready to come home-you've been gone for just over a week now but it probably seems alot longer to you since you've all experienced so much already. We pray that that the rest of the time will go quickly. I echo Joe's sentiments-could you bring some of the those towels home for my boys????
May God be your strength when you are weak and may your days be filled with His grace which God promises is sufficent for each day!
Love, Cheryl